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Day 3 Lay


"Brian K."


After seeing Dan's LR, I feel like I have to do some catch up.

The day I met this chick I was getting pretty bad results. I was opening all day, yet getting no closes. When I get one close though, I usually get a few. Anyway I open this chick at the bookstore, she's looking at the travel section.

This chick was very difficult. I met her a few weeks ago, and when I first opened her, she was very closed off. She didn't want to talk, but I persisted. We talked about traveling, and the different places we went to. How great it is going to wherever. It's just a new scenery, and sometimes it's nice to change things up. I # closed when it was getting hard for me to keep up the conversation. I still have trouble vibing. She was going to Yellowstone and the Grand Canyon in a few days so we decide to meet up sometime afterwards.

I called her before she left and we talked for a few minutes. I told her she better have a good time there.

I got lazy to call her and finally called her, we talked and set up a day 2. We met for the day 2 and had some great fun. We went to eat some dinner, I let her pick the place, I didn't know the neighborhood as well as her so she just gave me a few choices and I picked from there. While walking, I was doing light kino and we ended up holding hands for a bit. When we were at the restaurant, there was a guy sitting next to us reading a book while eating. I just started a cool little conversation with him, we talked about different foods. He said I wasn't adventurous enough, I laughed. He told me a cool place to eat grasshopper in the city, I may just go there.

We split the cost of the dinner. After dinner we walked around, I pulled her in for the kiss, she didn't want to. Turns out she's just really shy. I went for the kiss a few times, she didn't want to. She said she was full, and I saw a nice little tea shop wanted to go there, but she said she would prefer cocktails. I messed up here at this point, I was pretty indecisive. I wasn't in the mood for a cocktail, and would have preferred tea, but thought it over in my head for a bit and decided on tea. So we walked back and forth. Since we decided on a cocktail, I knew a great place. We walked around, but I couldn't find it. So we went to another place, they had some nice couches, we sat next to each other. We both picked some cocktails, I ended up paying for it. We were going to split it, but it was easier if one person paid. I told her she can pay for the next one. We made out for a bit, she wasn't really into it though. I had trouble advancing, so than I just started feeling her up. She didn't mind that. I felt her up a bit, licked down lower and lower and felt her up. We chilled there for a bit and enjoyed ourselves.

We left, and went to the park for a little bit. We made out, I fingered her a bit and she felt my dick. Than we ended the date. She was like apologizing saying she doesn't want to have sex, but also saying that she's sorry she didn't meet my expectations. I don't understand that at all. I reassured her and told her to only do what makes her feel comfortable.

Later that evening I tried something new. I gave her a romantic text message. She replied back. Than the next day in the afternoon she asked me if I was free that evening and if I was to come over to her place. Well I wasn't busy so thats great.

Before I met her I had a day 2 with this Korean chick. Didn't work out too well though, I was screened out because of my age. She wasn't really sure though, she was really hesitant about it. If my game was better, I'm sure I would have pulled her.

So I go to where we are supposed to meet. I'm like 10 minutes late, I call her, but all I get is voicemail. So I just chill back and wait. She calls me in a few minutes and tells me she'll be there soon. So we meet up, and I help her carry her bag back.

We go back to her place, we set up the movie and started watching it. She cuddled up next to me. Her place was too hot so I ended up taking off some clothes. We watched a bit of a movie, start making out. We keep escalating, and every once in a while I would ask her whats going on in the movie since she saw it before. We end up taking a shower together and had some fun there. I pushed her head down and she got the idea. I had a hard time cumming. She swore she was a virgin, I don't believe her. Whatever though.

To get this lay, the main thing is I had a good mindset and frame. I wasn't thinking of too many things, what if I do this right or this wrong. There were things I could have done better, which I'll try to remember for next time. But use what you learned and try not to think too much. Don't hesitate, be dominant, let the girl know what you want. Don't be an excuser and hide your desires.


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