I recently took Sebastian's/vincent's bootcamp (early June), then a one-day refresher in late August. I spend a lot of time in front of a computer at work so can sarge the net extensively.

Of course, internet game is easier than approaching in RL, the same difference as between making recording in a studio and a live concert.

My internet game improved to the point that #-close probably every other time I am on the Net, sometimes I get 2 numbers, and these aren't UG's , I do not sarge these. In any case, these are kinda throwaway #'s for me, so they give me a way to practice my phone game without being outcome dependent.

So I have been talking to lots of women on the phone, and behaving like a popular girl - not returning phone calls, declining meetings, etc., LOL...well, I am beginning to feel like a prize...:)

Well, on to LR: I notice this woman's profile on a dating site. She listed a wealthy suburb next to mine as her place of residence. I write her a one-line e-mail busting her for being a rich snob..she invites me to chat on IM (I do not invite women to chat on IM, I wait for them to take this step), we fluff for about ten minutes, then she ends the chat..

Couple of weeks later, we are online at the same time and invites me for IM chat again. This time we chat for longer time, I bust and tease her a bit while vibing with her (thanks, vincent!), she is good viber, we talk about wines and travel, she tells me she likes European men rather than American ones, I turn to emotional topics...she tells me about her online dating experiences...seems to be sexually open..I tell her I have to go and leave. She writes me an email telling me she finds me very intriguing.

Next day she wants to chat again, tells me about her life - she is in her early forties, had an older husband that died 10 years ago, left her the money that she lives off. She does not work. She tells me the school her daughter goes to - the red light comes on - the same academy as my son goes to (I do not tell her that)... She lives not even 15 minutes drive away from me. She wants to exchange photos, but I say no - say let's describe ourselves. She starts describing herself, and with a jolt I realize I met her a couple of months ago at a school event - we chatted for a minute or two then, and I noticed she was different - attractive and had a presence. But I am mum on that. We keep vibing, soon we talk about sex, she tells she loves sex and is very open and multiorgasmic. Then she tells me all the talk is getting her too excited, and we switch topics..At the end, I tell her we should keep our identities private for now but exchange cell phone #'s.

I call her the next day - no answer, I do not leave the message. The day after she calls herself (good!). We talk for an hour - good connection there. She has a very sexy voice, a good conversationalist - vibes really well. I remember to qualify her on her personality and brains.

Afterwards she sends me an email telling how impressed she is. We talk again the next day - she suggests a meeting for coffee, I am uncommitted. She backpedals: "No pressure." I laugh. Sends me another email in the evening, again compliments me, complains about lack of sex in her life.

I call her her the next day at lunch. She asks me whether I read her email, I say yes.

I say: "Let's meet"

Her: "Yes"

Me: "What is your schedule look like?"

Her: "Right now"

Me (It's ON!): "There is a Starbucks at .."

Her: "I do not want to go to Starbucks."

Me (slightly taken aback): "Ok, where.."

Her: "You know Hotel xxxxx. Meet me at ythe hotel bar..Do you have condoms?"

Me:" LOL..don't worry"

An hour later I am there..she is having some red wine. She has a striking chiseled Irish face with flaming red hair and piercing green eyes. A witch's face, full of fire and sensual energy. Body is not so great though - 7 at best, a little flabby , not muscular enough, not tight enough. But with the face like that, definitely fuckable.

I have to clear one more obstacle, tell her who I am, and that I am married. Especially because of the school, do not need any drama about that shit later.

I am dressed in my sarging outfit (thanks vincent and his GF!): Aldo shoes and belt, EXpress jeans/untucked shirt, black leather jacket, body jewelry. She looks at me and her eyes light up: "I cannot believe - you are so handsome..", her pupils are dilated, her attraction is obvious, she kinoes my knee then thigh..I kino back...I can sense she is very nervous, I can literally smell her nervousness and anxiety, she keeps repeating: " You are too handsome, I hope you are not disappointed..." - way too uncool, a turnoff for me. I qualify her on her eyes, voice and personality. She keeps repeating she does not want to share me with anyone: "I just can't, you are way too handsome.." My ears prick up - I really have to tell her now..I tell her: "Let's get a room". I'd rather tell her in privacy, so if there be a drama, let it be in a room, not in the bar.

She nods her head and goes to the front desk to get a room. So she understoood me that she is supposed to pay for it. I did not mean that, but let her - cudos to vincent again! Yes!

Some heavy petting in the elevator, I feel how wet she is through her pants. Then we are up in our room, and before I manage to say anything, her clothes are flying off, she is on the bed with her legs spread open, she is literally dripping.

Her: " Come here baby, I want you so much.."

Me: "Even if you would have to share me?"

Her: "Why so?"

Me: "Because I am married"

Her: "I do not care...Just come here and fuck the hell out of me..."

Which I proceed to do. Her body is a bit disappointing, but she more than makes up for it with eagerness, skill and passion. She is multi, comes 5 or 6 times. I dress and go back to the office. Before that I tell her that our kids go to the same school, etc. She asks me whether I will see her again.

Over the weekend she sends me 5 or 6 long emails telling me how happy she is and praising my bedroom skills. She calls me several times, tells me about her kinky experiences etc. Wants me to listen on the phone while she gets off with the vibrator. I tease her for being a nympho..

On Monday we met at Starbucks in the morning. This time she is very different, her nervousness is completely gone, she is quite cool and confident. We talk over coffee for about 45 minutes, then drive to her house for several hours of excellent sex. Then we go to a restaurant to have a late lunch.

More emails and phone messages ensue. I think I might have a problem containing her expectations. She understands I am married, and not upset about it, but keeps repeating how meeting me changed her life, how I am making her happy, and how unfortunate it is we did not meet before.

Summary: she will make a great FB/STR. Developing MLTR with her will require balancing act.

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