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theApproach Platinum ExclusiveTM Amsterdam Workshop


"April 14-16th: theApproach Staff
will be training a select group of men
in Amsterdam"



spiring playboys of Amsterdam -

Listen.

Me and my partner Sebastian are coming to Amsterdam.

And we're going to get down to business.

The fact stands that theApproach Platinum ExclusiveTM has proven itself time and time again with the remarkable success of every client who completes the training. I have here the highest documented percentage of clients becoming successful pick up artists after the workshop.

This is made possible because theApproach features:

  • World Class Instruction
    theApproach is currently taught exclusively by top coaches trained directly by the founders. While I already have plenty of clients who get success every weekend they go out, who would love to teach for us, we would only allow those that are absolutely 100% top level instructors before they do. I made this promise to our clients a few years back when we first started, and I've kept it as a man of my word.


  • The Most Accurate Cognitive Models
    I have boiled down our years of field experience into the most useful and accurate models of human behavior, and put it into an easy to learn system. theApproach integrates easily with any personality type, and fosters spontaneity, creativity and social growth. We only to teach concepts that produce visible change for our clients or give a marked improvment to their overal attitudes.


  • Unlimited Follow Up Support
    Not only is our client forum a place for post-workshop clients to meet one another and share tips, ideas and success stories, it is also a place where Sebastian and I continue to suggest excersices and continue to give personalized feedback to all of our clients. The workshop experience continues far beyond the intial weekend, as we promote deep level change.


  • Small Group Teaching Format
    Our group sizes are kept small. We cap out the Platinum Exclusive Worskhop at a 2:1 client to instructor ratio. This means plenty of personal time with the instructors. We always get to know each client as an individual and asses their needs as well as unique sticking points.


  • Seamless Integration with Other Popular Methods
    Compatible with predominantly A-Based systems like DYD as well as X-Based Systems like the M3 model. We understand our clients are curious and love to learn new things, and since theApproach is complementary to other popular systems, we encourge that completely.

"I was literally trusting these guys with my life, and I could not be happier. I came to the bootcamp with a completely open mind. It was great and I learned so much. If I did not do this I may or may not have gotten to the level of where I want to be, but if I ever did get there, it will save me years of my time. I don’t think there is many things as valuable as this."

Brian K., NYC





It's Time for a Serious Wake Up Call



You!

Yes, you - I have a quick survey for you.

Check it out:



Answer The Following Questions Honestly:
  1. When you want to talk to a pretty girl, do you often hesitate, searching for the right thing to say to impress her?


  2. Do you have a few attractive girls you wouldn't mind sleeping with, but only consider you "just a friend"?


  3. Do you prepare extensively for the first 20 minutes of conversation with a woman, but when your script runs out, you are left clueless about what to do next?


  4. Do you feel that if you had a better job, more income or higher status, meeting women would be easier?


  5. Can you start conversations with women and get them laughing only to find out later that you were merely their entertainment for the evening?


  6. Do you find it easy hanging out with women and making them laugh, but when it comes time to kiss them, you don't know how to proceed?


  7. Do you think that everything would straighten out if you could just find a girlfriend?




If you answered YES to ANY of the above questions, then your game has significant changes that need to be made in order to work effectively -- If you have the purpose of meeting, seducing and sleeping with women, that is.

But don't feel bad.

Only about 2 in 100 clients I meet in our workshops would NOT say yes to at least one of those questions.

See, there's major confusion today on the internet, in books, and in the magazines about what needs to be done to attract women. The more this misinformation is spread around, the worse things get for people.


Confusion comes from a few different places:

  • Taking advice from just plain incorrect sources


  • Trying to mix and match techniques with no underlying congruence


  • Not having a systematic method so you can learn from your mistakes and make improvements


  • Not having a community of like minded guys who are all on the right track

Listen: There are only FOUR fundamental characteristics that cause attraction in women. No more, no less. If you thoroughly understand these characteristics and know how to display them, you're good to go.

Problem is, most people are confused about one or more of the characteristics and are overcompensating because of their confusion. This is a huge turn-off to women.

And when you "overcompensate" you cause even more trouble for yourself.

I've seen guys try to win over women with money. Nothing wrong with paying for things, but there are certain times you should NEVER pay for a woman.

I've seen guys try to be the "sensitive man". Nothing wrong with being a sensitive person and being in touch with your emotions, but make sure you do it correctly.

I've seen guys who come off way too smooth. Too much sincere is good, too much smooth is bad. Some smooth is ok, but women never want to feel like they're being "seduced" by a player. You must distract them from the process.

I've seen guys act too cocky to be taken seriously. It's much better to be cocky than a pushover, but it's not optimum by any means. There comes a time when you have to cut the act and be a real person too.

Then there are the guys who are just passive. They are waiting for the perfect thing to say, or just the right moment to approach a woman, or for the right time to use their technique. And then the moment passes them before they even realize.

Stop it.

Stop doing that stuff immediately!

I don't care what the other "gurus" tell you. I don't care what is popular at the current moment. The fact is I get real, documented results.

I was the first person to write about Natural Game. I was the first person to teach it. I'm still the best to teach it. I've been doing it for a few years now, and I trained up plenty of men before I even founded theApproach. These guys exist across the country and many are running their own "secret" societies of pick-up.

I'm in shock at some of the articles I read from my imitators who don't even understand why they are teaching what they teach. They just want to be the next to jump on the bandwagon. They want to fake their way into a "hot" market. That's fine, but where are all their results?

My clients become certified playboys.

Period.


"I took a [another seduction workshop] program. It was pretty weak. They told me things like 'just use alpha bodylanguage' and 'just believe women are attracted to you'. There was no cohesive system or real concepts supporting it. It was truly amateur hour.

theApproach is for REAL. I have a plan for how to approach, I have a conversational structure that works for ME, and most importantly I have the support to keep getting better. I got this thing HANDLED."

Dylan F., Engineer, Toronto, Canada



I've trained up guys in my crew that I consider just average who STILL pick up new women every weekend.

And on top of it these guys have 3-5 different girlfriends each. They meet women in upscale shopping malls. They meet women in nightlclubs. They meet women who are on the way to meet their boyfriends. At this level, it doesn't matter one bit. It's just not a problem for them. If this sounds a bit outrageous, keep reading.

It comes down to just a few basic concepts. If you understand what causes attraction, and you know what proper execution looks like, then you'll be LETHAL. Attraction becomes a mechanical process that you can recreate in any woman you desire. There's a handful of guys like this out there. Believe me -- I'm one of them!





A Complete Solution in Plain English



I've designed these seminars to be highly personalized and interactive.

theApproach live programs consist of small-group classroom style seminars and in-field workshops. Both workshop and seminar space is limited, which allows you the greatest opportunity to get personalized attention and make major and paradigm-shifting changes and realizations. I cap out theApproach Platinum Exclusive workshop at a very intimate 2:1 client to instructor ratio.

Seminars are taught exclusively by me and my partner Sebastian Drake. You'll get to spend an entire three day weekend with two of the top recognized pickup gurus in the world. Our teaching methods are just as refined as our skills with women because we continue to develop and systematize them further, night after night. You can read what clients have said about our programs on the reviews page.

Key fundamental concepts and themes reccur throughout the seminar so that all new techniques and ideas will be utilized with the correct mindsets. Remember, there's only 4 fundamental characteristics to create attraction in women. All the behaviors, all the attitudes, all the body language and all of the techniques fall into at least one of those 4 categories.

The seminar is extremely content-rich, and because it is presented in a congruent manner, you will easily integrate these new behaviors into your own personality.


You can find a full description of theApproach Platinum Exclusive here:


Building a Strong Foundation


Baseline - Where All These Social Skills Come From

  • Study and Disciplines
  • Attitudes and Execution
  • The Types of Attitudes We’ll Focus On

Overview of the VAC Attraction System

  • Why Certain Things Are Attractive to Certain People
  • VAC: Value, Attainability, and Compliance
  • Being Attractive to Women
  • Being and Becoming Valuable
  • Value is All About Perception

The Four Types of Value

  • Value Type #1: Survival - Influence over Self
  • Value Type #2: Sex - Influence over a Partner
  • Value Type #3: Power - Influence over a Group
  • Value Type #4: Novelty - Specific Value

Attainability

  • What is Attainability?
  • The No-Challenge Switch and How Not To Flip It
  • Auto-Rejection Mechanism
  • “High Value Attainability”
  • Balancing Attainability/Availability

The Cost-Worth Conception

  • Why Compliance Works – And Is Necessary
  • Overview of Applied Compliance
  • Base Compliance

Initiating Conversation and Focus


Situational Relevance – The Basis of Conversation

  • What is Situational Relevance?
  • The Necessity of Situational Relevance
  • Understanding What Happens When You’re Not SitRel
  • Situational Relevance and Opening

The Five Types of Openers

  • Genuine Interest
  • Implicit Direct
  • Situational Indirect
  • True Indirect
  • Nonverbal/Playful
  • Choosing Openers That Are Situationally Relevant

Logistics of Opening

  • Direction Pre-Approach
  • Groups
  • Examples of Openers That Can Be Used Immediately
  • Creating New Openers “Default” Openers?

Focus

  • What Should I Be Thinking As I Socialize?
  • The Vertigo Effect
  • Focus on Entering Venue
  • Focus During Approach
  • Focus Through Conversation

Nonverbal Image Projection


Body Language

  • What Good Body Language Says About You
  • Seated Body Language
  • Standing Body Language

Active Nonverbal Communication

  • Eye Contact
  • Facial Expression
  • Conveying Emotion Via Certain “Looks”
  • Punishing Bad Behavior – With Just a Glance

Moving Like You Own the Place

  • Fluidity in Motion
  • Walking Patterns
  • “The Gunslinger’s Walk”
  • “The Polite Zone”

Tonality

  • The Essence of Tonality
  • Legato vs. Staccato
  • The Power of Pauses

Kino

  • What is Kino?
  • What Does Touching People Show?
  • Playful Kino
  • Protective Kino
  • Incidental Kino

Conversational Technique & Intention Maps


Verbalizing vs. Demonstrating

  • What Happens When You Verbalize Something
  • Demonstration of Good Characteristics
  • Characteristics To Demonstrate
  • Things That Are Okay to Verbalize
  • Efficiently Demonstrating Things About Yourself

Getting Work Started

  • Base Necessary Compliance
  • The Importance of Having Standards
  • How to Screen a Woman to See if She Meets Your Standards
  • Stock Examples of Screening
  • Real Screening and False Screening – And the Reasons to Use Them

Keeping Yourself Attainable To Her

  • Rewarding Good Behavior/Compliance
  • Pacing and Leading
  • Stock Qualification
  • Designing Qualification Dialogue
  • Using Qualification to Influence Behavior

Intention Maps

  • The Intention Map
  • Three Phases of an Intention Map
  • Long Term Girlfriend Intention Map
  • Open Relationship Intention Map
  • One Night Stand Intention Map
  • Designing and Implementing Custom Intention Maps

Leading a Conversation


Good Conversation and Focus

  • How Focus Affects Conversation
  • Conversational Vertigo
  • Subconscious Mastery

Conversational Management

  • What Conversational Threads Help Us?
  • Introducing New Threads in a Situationally Relevant Way
  • Threadcutting: The Art of Eliminating Bad Conversational Threads
  • Amplification: The Art of Promoting Good Conversational Threads
  • How to “Enforce” Verbalizations For Value and Humor
  • Countermeasures to Disrespect
  • Natural Pauses During Conversation

Frontloading Emotion

  • What is Frontloading Emotion?
  • Captivating People via FLE
  • Backloading Situational Relevance

Storytelling

  • Verbalizing vs. Demonstrating in Storytelling
  • What a Story Must Do – And Must Not
  • Interactivity and Compliance
  • The Correct Way to Practice

Material – Using and Creating

  • The Correct Focus Behind Telling Someone Else’s Story or Routine
  • Verbalizing Lower Value Amidst Material
  • Creating the Mental Imagery That Drives Good Material

Fashion and Style


What Women Cue Into

  • The Handicap Principle
  • The Difference Between What Interests Men and What Interests Women
  • Putting Those Sharp Touches on Everything
  • To Break The Rules...

Top to Bottom

  • Shoes
  • Socks
  • Pants
  • Belt
  • Shirts
  • Coats
  • Scarves
  • Watch

Getting the Right Clothes For You

  • Colors That Work
  • The Right Fit
  • That “Sharp Touch”
  • Where to Start
  • The Articles to Get First
  • Your “Second Face”
  • A Few Good Retailers
  • A Few Good Brands

Putting It All Together


The Relationship Between Compliance and Value

  • The Relationship Between Compliance and Value
  • The Power of Value Flux
  • Intelligent Rewards
  • Designing Your Compliance Scale On Your Terms
  • A Better Lifestyle via Compliance/Value

Dating Smart

  • The Three Rules of Dating
  • Setting Up Good Dates With Logistics in Mind
  • Examples of Stock Good Dates
  • Getting Physical Comfort
  • Cutting Space
  • Kinesthetic Sequencing
  • Verbal and Physical LMR Solutions

Filling in the Blanks

  • Walkthrough
  • of a Standard “Pickup”
  • Customizing Each Area of a Pickup For Yourself

A Few Simple Tips for Good Sex

  • The Key Components of Good Sex
  • Basic Foreplay
  • Basic Sexual Technique

Healthy, Happy Relationships


Relationship Expectations

  • “Drawing the Battelines”
  • Keeping Attraction Up in Relationships
  • Precedence, Precedence, Precedence

Having Her Support You In Your Goals

  • How To Get Your Woman Involved In Helping You With Your Goals
  • Notes on The “Masculine Domain”
  • Becoming a Better Person With Her Help
  • Helping Her “Make” You

Open Relationships

  • Guidelines on Seeing Each Other
  • Keeping An Open Relationship Open
  • Is It Possible To See Other Women and Have Her Exclusive?
  • Stopping Jealousy
  • Honesty - When And When Not to Talk About Other Women
  • Dealing With Requests of Exclusivity

Eternal Casual Relationships

  • A Much Better Alternative to Cheating
  • No-Pressure Relationships That Last For Years
  • How to Manage the Expectations That Arise

Living the Lifestyle

  • Meeting More People In Your Daily Life
  • Handling Multiple Open Relationships
  • Lifestyle Maintenance
  • Continuing Improvement


"You guys are Hitch to the extreme! Forget reading books on this stuff, in my humble but accurate opinion, no other method has made me learn more than yours of making us actually do the work out in the field in real life situations, not just theory. And I’m amazed with how those couple lines you advised me to say to past ex’s, who have a man, but still keep them as a bootycall...worked!"

Raj S., Entrepeneur, NYC





This is What You'll Get:



1. How To Get Attraction From Any Woman

I'll teach you the only 4 fundamental characteristics you'll need to generate attraction in ANY woman you meet. We have broken down the structure of attraction. I'll show you that a woman's attraction is based on a few things that can be learned and consistently reproduced.

We have a thorough understanding of female psychology. Women love sex and love forming intimate connections with men. They love to do these things more than anything else in the world. It's just extremely rare that they meet a man who can lead them through this process without feeling guilty or ashamed - but when they actually do meet a man like this, it's all over. We will guide you to becoming that man.

But... does this stuff really work? I'm too old / ugly / short / fat.

That's great -- But I won't pretend to feel bad for you. Here's why. The physical charateristics most guys worry about have nothing to do with the 4 fundamental characteristics that get attraction in women. NOTHING.

Besides, I'm sure if you think about it, you can find a counterexample of whatever your thinking. Can you think of an ugly guy with a hot girlfriend? Not that hard, is it. How about an older guy? Hmmm though so. Short guy? Fat guy? Right. I can think of some too. In fact, there's examples everywhere. I've trained loads of guys with those physical "disadvantages". Not a big deal.

In fact, after the workshop, most guys forget that they ever even had those limiting beliefs in the first place!

All that matters is that you have some level of dedication. If you have a reasonable level of intelligence and just put in the work, this stuff will work for you.

Of course there are those guys who expect to solve a problem they've had for 20 years in a 3 day workshop without putting in any effort whatsoever. It's just not a reasonable expectation. That's why we have the 10 week money back guarantee. We want to give people a chance to practice. Go out and work the techniques. Give it a try in the real world after the workshop. If after 10 weeks making a dedicated effort, you haven't improved, we don't want your money.


2. Personal Image Consultation

I'll take you to the coolest clothing shops and give you a fashion makeover. But it doesn't end with just getting cool clothes. I'll work together with you to develop a completely new image that the clothes will not only support but also enhance.

I already have a cool style, and I know how to dress.

Great. But the image you put forth probably doesn't demonstrate all 4 of the characteristics that attract women, and furthermore your image may not be congruent with your style of dress. I'll handle this for you and make damn sure you're completely straight on this. It's one of the fastest easiest ways to get women to start approaching you and generate quick attraction immediately on approach

I have actually told girls that my clients were famous celebrities and the girls just accepted it! Our image consultation is THAT authentic. The girls would then take pictures with him and ask him for his autograph!


3. Comprehensive Body Language Section

We have THE most comprehensive body language section. We'll teach you to walk like a model. We'll teach you Sebastian's famous "Gunslinger's Walk" that will allow you to part crowds of people as you pass by. All in all there is an incredible selection of body language, tonality and facial expressions that trigger the automatic attraction mechanisms in women.

Sounds incredible, but I don't have the money, and I don't have the time.

Ok. But don't tell me you haven't wasted at least the price of tuition throughout the years wasting time and money making poor decisions in hopes of getting laid. I know a guy who spends about $50 bucks a month on online dating - but since he doesn't understand attraction, that money has been going to waste for well over a year. I know guys who regularly spend $100 on EACH DATE they take women on. I even know a guy who spent $40,000 on a car just because he thought it would get him laid more.

Combine that with all the time guys spend thinking about how to attract women through trial and error, wasting years of their life that could be spent enjoying multiple relationships, one night stands or in really exciting relationships with fantastic women.

Do yourself a favor.

Get it done.

Get it handled.

Then get on with your life.


4. Personalized Conversational Structure

Game has always been something that's very personal to me.

There are many things I do and say to women that other guys might not be comfortable with. Although these things work like a charm, my game is very unique to me. I could easily ignore this fact, sell you "Me Method" and have you doing things that aren't exactly right for your personality.

People are different. What might work for one guy may not work for the next. We all have our own strengths and weaknesses. Part of our program spends time developing a conversational structure that works with your personality, not against it. I'd much rather adapt our concepts and techniques to your own unique personality than carelessly fit you into a predefined mold.

Ok, I'm with you on that one. The truth is I've already spent a bunch of money on products and I haven't even gotten a chance to read them all yet.

The problem in the seduction market is NOT the lack of information. There's literally too much information.

I understand where guys are coming from. Through working with hundreds of guys from all over the globe, I see the same patterns over and over. I see the guys going out into the field with information overload, trying to overapply all the knowledge they've accumulated. It just makes them come off wierd or creepy.

theApproach Workshops aren't about how many books you've read or how many different audio programs you've listened to. It's not about how much new information you can cram into that skull of yours, it's about what you actually DO about getting this thing fixed. It's also about having a system that works for YOUR personality type and having the support of other guys pushing you along the entire way.


5. The Original Natural Game Workshop

You'll get to learn Natural Game from the originator, live and in the flesh.

You'll have access to the most cutting edge seduction ideas and real-world techniques that are available. You'll see them demonstrated LIVE in the field and then get a customized version for your own personality and learning style.

Oh, I know. You're a member of online forums and yahoo groups and you get all your info there "for free!"

Hey, that's great. I think online forums are terrific. I make occasional posts to forums with tidbits of advice here and there. (where do you think my competition got the idea to teach Natural Game in the first place?)

But if you can't run effective game, you're not going to get anywhere, no matter who's material you study online. And if you answered YES to any of the above questions, it's a sign you're overapplying the stuff you learned on the 'net. You're in overwhelm. And you're not doing nearly as well as you could be.

Back when I introduced Structured Natural Game and all the other gurus proclaimed that you "need routines and gimmicks" I stuck by it and worked my Natural Game program into a masterpiece. Now it's considered the best thing since sliced bread, and everyone and their mothers are slapping up "Natural Game" on their website.

Isn't it ironic?


"The best thing about theApproach -- gotta be how PERSONALIZED it is. Forget canned routines from online forums. Everyone's usin' them. I say LET THEM!

I used to think the power of techniques was in the words. Nahh. Nothing special. theApproach gave me a full LIBRARY of techniques modeled after my REAL LIFE to get me EXACTLY what I want. PROPS BOYS YOU'VE DONE IT AGAIN!"

Jinwoo K., Springfield, IL





Experience theApproach Difference



100% Money Back Guarantee!

We have such a high degree of belief in our programs that that we offer a 10 week 100% Money Back Guarantee. If you are not completely convinced that our program will help you improve your success in dating, seduction and pick-up, we will give you a full refund, no questions asked. You've got 10 full weeks to give it a shot. If you don't improve in 10 weeks of trying it out in the field with the help and support of our client forum, we'll give you your money back. With us taking all of the risk, it takes all of the pressure off of our customers.

Still skeptical? Prove it to yourself with full confidence and peace of mind.

See more information on our Money Back Guarantee terms page!


Workshop Cost As a Tax Deduction!

The workshop goes far beyond just meeting women and dating. It will also improve your leadership skills, social skills, your interactions with your boss or employees and of course your overall character. The Federal Government allows a tax deduction for education expenses used to develop and maintain professional skills. The entire cost of the workshop including travel and lodging can be written off in most circumstances.


Privacy and Security Guaranteed!

We guarantee the privacy of all our clients, including your identiy and personal information. All program details including the specific locations and schedule is emailed to you with the registration confirmation and kept completely confidential.

In addition, all payments are handled via our secure Geotrust credit card processing system. It's fast, easy and secure.


A Lifetime of Free Support!

When you become a client with theApproach, you not only have the experience of the initial program, but you get immediate access to our members-only forum and join an exclusive group of like-minded individuals on the same path to success as you.


Inside, you will be able to:

  • Join discussions with other pick-up artists.
  • Get general advice on social dynamics and specific advice for attracting women.
  • Contribute any new ideas you may have to other pick-up artists.
  • Get answers to all of your seduction related questions.
  • Have access to all of the latest theApproach concepts and techniques.
  • Locate and hook up with wingmen in your area.
  • Learn about Seduction Lairs and find out how to join them.
  • Join an exclusive social network of high-level coaches and clients.
  • Continue to make progress and get peer encouragement.
  • Have personal contact with all instructors, including theApproach founders.
  • Get access to exclusive Field Reports of top coaches. and learn all of the newest concepts and techniques in the field of social dynamics.





Act Now And Get This Thing Handled


How many more women are you going to let pass you by? Women will enter your life for a brief moment, they are gone the next moment. How many opportunities do you think pass by in just a matter of days of not having this kind of knowledge? Just one of these women, if you had the proper tools, could change your entire life for the better.

It's the actual workshop that changes your life, it's the experiences that you'll have during or because of the workshop. Trust me, although some people consider me some kind of fantastic guru, hanging with me doesn't come anywhere close to as magical as that first moment when you meet your next new girlfriend!

Those are the experiences we live for. Those magic little moments where the world glows with positivity. The moments when nothing else seems to matter but you and the beautiful woman you're holding beside you. There is no better time in your life to make this change than RIGHT NOW.

Really, what are you waiting for?





Sign Up Now and Get Three More Bonuses!


1. **Early Signup Discount**

If you sign up 2 weeks before the start of the workshop we'll take an additional $100 off of the total cost. Plus it's already taken care of automatically in our secure shopping cart. No waiting around for a rebate or check by mail.


2. **First 5 Clients Get a Free One Hour Phone Consultation**

If you are one of the first 5 to sign up for any given workshop you'll receive a free phone consultation by either me or my partner, Sebastian. This would normally cost $80 if purchased separate, but sign up now and get it absolutely FREE.


3. **Free Forum Membership For Life**

The original plan was to charge $50 per month for access to theApproach exclusive forum. We're currently giving away lifetime access to clients who sign up now for added support after their workshop. We figure it would be a great way to say "Thank You" to all our clients for your interest and continued support over the years. Once April 1st, 2006 rolls around it WILL become a pay-only membership, but to clients who sign up now, they will be LOCKED IN for a lifetime of FREE forum membership.


- Important Notes When Purchasing -

  • Choose the best date and give yourself time
    Since workshops sell out quickly, it is best to decide which city is closest on a date that works for you. That way you will have plenty of time to prepare for the workshop and be more aware of your goals.


  • Lock in our low prices now
    Demand in the dating and seduction field has increased sharply recently. So has the cost of doing business. We're on your side and committed to providing the very best quality instruction for your money, and we've managed to keep our prices as low as possible. We do however reserve to raise the prices at any time, because of the nature of business.


  • Air travel and accomodations
    By booking in advance, you'll be able to get better seats on planes, better rooms in hotels, and better rates on both. We recommend that you reserve your spot as far as possible in advance. Typically rates will start to increase 2-3 weeks before the weekend of travel.




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Only $1140 Dollars (Approx. 947 Euros)


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London, U.K. - February 16th-18th
Dubai, UAE - February 22nd-24th


theApproach Platinum Exclusive is an expanded standard workshop, with a 2:1 client to instructor ratio. These are often offered in countries with multiple languages spoken, so that students of different fluencies of English and other languages can all improve in the most efficient, painless way possible.

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P.S. There are a few folks out there teaching "indirect" game and passing it off as Natural Game. There's people teaching "direct" game and passing it off as Natural Game. Natural Game goes above and beyond both and allows YOU the freedom to choose which style you prefer.

Natural Game is the structured set of fundamental behaviors and mental processes that allow you to run ANY conversational structure. When you use an indirect conversational structure, a woman gives compliance first. When you use a direct conversational structure, the man gives compliance first. Plain and Simple. You can learn conversational structures anywhere, but if you want to learn Natural Game, my workshop is truly the ONLY option.



theApproach Recruitment Drive
  • theApproach instructed are currently exclusively hand-picked. As this industry becomes bigger and bigger, we are looking for motivated, intelligent and gifted instructors to join the team. If you think you have what it takes, email Sebastian.



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