Attract Women | Seduction Workshops: theApproach Flirting & Seduction

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FAQ

I Would Like to Attend a Workshop, but My City Isn't Listed. What Should I Do?
Will this Program Help Me Find a Girlfriend, or just One Night Stands?
I'm Interested in Having a Personalized Bootcamp in My Own City. Can You Accommodate Me?
Will theApproach Conduct Live Programs in the City Where I Live or Other Major Cities that I Want to Visit?
How Much Do Workshops and Bootcamps Cost?
How Much Do You Recommend I Bring for Spending Money?
What Should I Bring or Wear to Live Programs?
How Does your Money-Back Guarantee Work?
Are Clients Able to Receive Discounts for Attending Only for Partial Portions of a Program?
Do Your Teachings Work on Women of Any Age or Nationality?
How Many People Participate in Live Programs?
Will I get success using your program?
How Do I Prepare for Workshops or Bootcamps?
What Lodging Should I Arrange for the Live Programs?
What's the Difference Between the Street Game Workshop and the Standard Workshop?
What if I can't Approach Women?
Is My Name and Personal Information Confidential if I Attend Live Programs?
What is the Difference Between a Personalized Seminar and Live Workshop Versus a Bootcamp?
If I Take a Bootcamp, Will I Learn Everything I Would Have Learned in a Workshop?
How Do I Pay the Balance of a Live Program After Paying a Deposit?
What are Your Payment Plans Like?

I Would Like to Attend a Workshop, but My City Isn't Listed. What Should I Do?
If you would not like to visit a city that is currently booked on the schedule page, you have a few options. First, you may request a workshop in your city, given there are other potential clients interested in signing up.

Just send an email to workshoprequest@the-approach.net.

You may also sign up for a bootcamp in your own city, and provide air faire and accommodations for the instructor. We love traveling to new cities and meeting new people! Just email us if interested.

Will this Program Help Me Find a Girlfriend, or just One Night Stands?
This program will help you do either. The skills and mindsets we teach make you more attractive to women on all levels. This means that not only will you be able to get one night stands, but you will also have skills to create a genuine, long term connection that will stand the test of time. Our programs will make it faster and easier for you to attract a compatible, trustworthy and attractive girlfriend, and put you in control of the relationship. Having success in this area of your life means you will have the power and choice when it comes to meeting women, and you will have the ability to carefully screen and select a woman that you really like and are compatible with.

We also teach relationship management skills so that you maintain your power throughout the durations of the relationship. Our system creates a healthy and happy relationship for both people involved, and being an attractive man means your woman will be even more fulfilled and less likely to look elsewhere.

I'm Interested in Having a Personalized Bootcamp in My Own City. Can You Accommodate Me?
Yes. If you are interested in having a personalized bootcamp in your city and it is not listed on the schedule page, we will fly out to see you for a Bootcamp if you are willing to accept airfare and accommodation as an additional expense to the price of the Bootcamp.

Will theApproach Conduct Live Programs in the City Where I Live or Other Major Cities that I Want to Visit?
theApproach will conduct a Standard Workshop in any city not listed on the schedule page in the US, Canada or Europe if there are at least 6 interested participants who sign up. We will conduct a Street Game Workshop for 4 interested participants. We will consider conducting our workshops for less than the minimum required number of participants, granted they are willing to accept air faire and accommodations for the instructors as part of the cost.

theApproach is continually updating the schedule page with new dates. Keep an eye out for your city or send us a workshop request.

How Much Do Workshops and Bootcamps Cost?
The Standard Workshop is $997.00 and includes both a Classroom Seminar during the day and a Live In-Field Workshop at night. It is a full three days long, and completely comprehensive with respect to meeting, attracting, seducing and maintaining powerful relationships with women. The student to instructor ratio is no more than 4:1.

The Street Game Workshop is $1197. and is almost entirely in-field at malls, coffee shops, bookstores and of course, open-air. It is for advanced level students who can already meet women in bars and nightclubs, who would like to extend these skills into every part of his life. The main focus is on ultra-fast seductions, making optimal use of internal states, logistical leading and female psychology concepts. The student to instructor ratio is 3:1.

Bootcamps are three day programs, with a 2:1 student to instructor ratio. The current price is $1597. If you are interested in a Bootcamp in a city not listed on the schedule, contact us and let us know which city. Bootcamps in cities not on the schedule cost $1597.00 plus airfare and accommodations for the instructor.

Bootcamp programs are offered primarily in Boston and New York City however, instructors will fly to other cities for Bootcamps if clients are willing to accept airfare and accommodation as an additional expense to the price of the Bootcamp.

Clients forfeit their security deposit ($500 for all programs) to theApproach in the event of a cancellation.

All price listings for Live Programs are listed in US Dollars.

How Much Do You Recommend I Bring for Spending Money?
Students are recommended to bring at least an additional $30 per day for food while traveling to a foreign city for a theApproach Workshop or Bootcamp.

There may or may not be club fees, which may be an additional $5 - $20 per night; however, we try to avoid clubs with fees.

Plus, if you are attending a Personalized Bootcamp, we recommend that you bring additional spending money of at least $50 so that you may make purchases during the image consultation and makeover

What Should I Bring or Wear to Live Programs?
When attending a seminar, we suggest that you bring a pen and paper to take notes since audio/video recording is prohibited. We may or may not supply you with an audio recording of certain portions of the seminar, if we feel it would be helpful. You should wear whatever you would normally wear if you were going out to meet women. That way you will be comfortable and we can make assessments for the fashion and style consultation. When going out at night on workshop clients should wear dressy shirts, pants, and shoes as these are requirements to entry to many clubs/lounges/bars.

How Does your Money-Back Guarantee Work?
Sign up for our program. Come with a positive attitude and learn as much as you can, complete the suggested exercises and participate in the forum. All we ask is that you try out our concepts and techniques and give it a shot. Just give it a fair effort. If you aren't very satisfied with your results after 6 weeks, we don't want your money. If you are not completely convinced that our program has helped you improve your success in dating, seduction and pick-up, we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.

Are Clients Able to Receive Discounts for Attending Only for Partial Portions of a Program?
Clients must attend all 3 days of our Standard Workshop, Street Game Workshop or Bootcamp to get the most out of theApproach Program.

We do not allow Clients to attend at a discounted rate for attending only parts of a program.

Do Your Teachings Work on Women of Any Age or Nationality?
Yes. Our experience comes from meeting, attracting and seducing women of all ages, from all over the world. The concepts and techniques are based on making you naturally more attractive on an instinctual, evolutionary level. Since what we are doing is very real at a very primal and natural level, different cultures and age ranges have very little effect on it.

Also, since we do have such a vast range of experiences, we are able to give specialized tips if you are interested in a particular kind of woman.

How Many People Participate in Live Programs?
In order to preserve the intimate and exclusive atmosphere, we restrict the number of students who participate. We cap out our Standard Workshops at a 4:1 student to instructor ratio. Street Game Workshops are restricted to only thnreecstudents per instructor, and Bootcamps are 2:1.

Because of our workshop structures and methods of teaching, every student will get personal attention and learn as much as he possibly can over the weekend.

Will I get success using your program?
The social skills you'll learn on your Approach program have been proven to work hundreds of times over. You can read about success stories on our testimonials section.

BUT, social skills are like any other subject or activity. You must practice and train to get truly excellent at it.

For example, take calculus. Calculus has been proven to work a bazillion times over.

And some professors have excellent reputations at teaching calculus, do excellent work, and produce many successful students.

Despite that, some people will fail this professors class and never learn calculus. This isn't because they aren't smart enough. It's not because they have 'no chance'. They just didn't apply themselves and work hard.

Your program will work if you want to make it work. It'll lay down a solid foundation of socializing and help you get results ASAP. But you need to practice and apply yourself.

How Do I Prepare for Workshops or Bootcamps?
Our workshops are long and intensive. Get plenty of rest, and eat well. Be aware of the things you would like to work on. Know what your goals are. Write down any questions you would like us to answer or any specific situations you would like to handle.

What Lodging Should I Arrange for the Live Programs?
You will need a place to stay for Friday and Saturday night. Try to be centrally located in the city as possible (ie, Financial District in Boston, Midtown Manhattan in New York City).

We reccommend www.Expedia.com for good deals on lodging.

What's the Difference Between the Street Game Workshop and the Standard Workshop?
The street game workshop is just that: learning how to pick up women in the streets. This includes all daytime venues such as malls, coffee shops, supermarkets, bookstores, campuses and open-air. It does not include any bars or clubs.

It is also more personalized because of the 3:1 student to instructor ratio and it has a lot more in-field experience. It also assumes you have some of the basics down already, as the seminar portion is kept to a minimum. Most students who take the Street Game Workshop have already taken a workshop previously and would like to take their day game to an elite level.

What if I can't Approach Women?
That's fine. You have to learn sometime! In a typical workshop, a student will approach an average of about twenty women a day. We will help you become comfortable doing so, and give you exercises to reduce your fear and anxiety. Don't worry if you are nervous coming in, we'll take care of it.

Is My Name and Personal Information Confidential if I Attend Live Programs?
Yes. We will never share or personal information with anyone. Period.

What is the Difference Between a Personalized Seminar and Live Workshop Versus a Bootcamp?
Workshops are taught in a group setting. There will be group exercises, and all venues will be accessible to a wide variety of people.

On a bootcamp, the learning will be with an instructor, and the program will be built around your specific interests. We'll have added flexibility to choose venues very specific to what you want. Bootcamps have a rough structure, but will be customized highly to the individual.

If I Take a Bootcamp, Will I Learn Everything I Would Have Learned in a Workshop?
Bootcamps are highly customized to the individual. You'll speak with a instructor before your bootcamp begins, and he'll assess where you're at and find out about your goals and priorities. From there, we'll bring out your strengths and help you fix your weaknesses. Because of this, we'll spend time focusing on what the student wants and needs the most, but you will leave with competency in all the skills that you'd learn on a workshop.

How Do I Pay the Balance of a Live Program After Paying a Deposit?
Upon signing up for a workshop, you will receive a link in your email which will allow you to pay the workshop balance.

What are Your Payment Plans Like?
We want our programs to be accessible to everyone. We ask that your entire balance is paid before the start of the workshop. If you feel you have a unique situation, send an email and let us know, we will try to Accommodate you.
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"The first time I went into the field with Sebastian, I was blown away. I couldn't believe the things he was getting away with. He would walk right up to girls and dance with them, spin them around, dip them, pick them up, it was crazy. He would do this..."
-Dennis K., Boston, MA

"Sebastian and Vincent have completely different styles from one another, and both get the same amazing results using theApproach framework and concepts. And there's a whole underground network of guys they've trained in every city - their former clients...."
-Tim S., San Francisco, CA

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